Posts Written On October 07, 2009

Petite Feet Sample Sale

My PF Sale Jessica Simpson boots 🙂

WOW, nothing gets me excited the way a shoe sale does. I am catching my flight at 8pm back to LA but I stopped by to say hello to the amazing Petite Feet team setting up for this weekends big sale. (click the pink flyer on the right) What a treat! There are the cutest boots for Fall and Winter as well as a whole bunch of stuff for Spring 2010! I took my mom and my dog along with me and we took some quick snapshots of what you are going to expect! My mom thinks I’m totally crazy and infatuated with shoes. She is right 🙂

There are just way too many good deals and gasping for cuteness shoes at the sale. I am telling you, don’t sleep on this one! BCBG is going hard with the platforms, Jessica Simpson is going skyhigh and candybar-heels (imagine a high long flat heel like a chocolate bar), wedges are in, colors are in, patterns are in and textures are in. I can’t wait to show you what I picked up! But first, I want to know what you ladies got all weekend so leave a comment 🙂

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Sprinkles on that Vanilla??

The Urban Dictionary defines “vanilla sex”as: Sex that doesn’t involve any twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey dovey”.
I don’t know if I agree with the “typically sweet and happy and very lovey dovey” part. I think “sweet/happy/lovey dovey sex can still be great, especially if it’s passionate. But come on, life is short, grab the bull by the horns and just ride!

I’ve always said that I love learning. No matter how “insignificant” the topic maybe. But let’s face it when it comes to sex, you can’t help but be curious. Anyway I recently learned about the term Vanilla Sex: what a culture refers to as standard or conventional sexual behaviour. Of course different cultures, subcultures and individuals have different ideas about what constitutes this type of sex, but all ofl their “ideas” have one thing in common. They all identify Vanilla sex as sex that doesn’t involve any elements such as BDSM, Kink, or Fetish activities. In English, Unexciting/Boring Sex.

BDSM for those of you that don’t know, means: Bondage and Discipline (B&D or BD), Dominance and Submission (D&S), Sadism and Masochism(S&M or SM): These include a WIDE variety of “activities” in which people usually take on complementary, but unequal roles… but we’ll talk about that another day *wink wink* I will say however, that these practices fall waaayyy outside of coventional sex activities…
Apparently in the Western world, Vanilla sex is often associated with the missionary position. Hmmm why do people hate on the missionary position?
Get up on your reading/experimenting etc, there’s tonnes of ways to “spice” it up.
What’s your flavor?

Take a look at the dialogue used here courtesy of Urban Dictionary to describe “Vanilla Sex”:
Person A: “I got some last night.”
Person B: “Really, how was it?”
Person A: “Meh, vanilla sex.”
Person B: “Awww. that sucks.”
LOL.
There are tonnes of resources out there to ensure that we maintain that fire/spice/flavor in our love/sex lives. Not to mention the millions of “How to have great sex” articles in top magazines, all giving the same recycled advice lol. I can only conclude that “Vanilla” sex or being “Vanilla” is a “no-no”… *HY!* So how do you feel about Vanilla Sex? Could you handle being in a relationship (whatever the status) with someone that’s “Vanilla”? They do say sex isn’t everything right…? HA! Or do you need a little flavor in your life?
Could you handle being with someone that found being adventurous in the bedroom unappealing? What if you REALLY REALLY loved them?
*kisses*
Bella
“It’s 2010, not 1864.”-Jay Z

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Smarter Sex

I don’t know if these are real… But whatever, I thought this was pretty interesting:)
As it is Hump Day I feel it’s only right that I share this with you.
Ladies &; Gentlemen, Boys & Girls, Boys & Boys… We’ve all heard the phrase, “Wrap it up, before you Smack it up” so I give you the iCondom. 

Safe sex just got a whole lot more interesting, enjoyable and smarter… According to Context Condoms, it’s the first ever “clever” condom. “A new era in the history of safe sex”.
First we have…
The iMemory: They say they used state of the art technology, to develop a latex that remembers your penis at it’s maximum size

They come in pack of 6 for $399. How much is your pleasure worth to you??

Get a guided tour of these “super” condoms here!
The iLight??? lol. This condom GLOWS in the dark, and I mean GLOWS! Like there’s a flashlight in the room! (watch the video) So maybe it’s cool that it glows in the dark and all, but I have to ask why anyone would want their penis to glow in the dark? I mean sure maybe if you’re going camping, but if you still don’t know where to put what when it’s dark you got a PROBLEM... and ladies when it’s Go Time, will a glow in the dark penis turn you on more, than one that’s not glow in the dark…?
This one the men will love!
The iFood: Made for oral sex, fellatio, brains, head, whatever you wanna call it. What sets this condom apart from the other brands is quite phenomenal; During orgasm, the sperm reacts with the latex, producing one of the following: Fresh California Strawberry, Diet Cola, “and especially for that morning sex, Porridge” *don’t know bout that one*

The iTree: For anal sex. Uhm HOW did they come up with the name for this condom???? I guess it’s because it has a special ingredient from the Amazon that increases pleasure for both you and your partner as well as lubrication.
Disclaimer: if anyone ever tries these or has tried these please share your experience, no need for graphics lol, simply let us know if it’s yay or nay.
I know there’s a lot of men/boys out there that are shifting in their seats at the thought of having to wear a rubber.. even some women/girls.But understand that YOU HAVE TO. Life is so precious.
Happy Hump Day *wink wink*
*kisses*
Bella
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